When did the values of Americans change? When did we become a society of people who believe in entitlement rather than one of responsibility? When did the government and the people decide it was time to send this country into a spiral that is destined to end the freedom once cherished?
This country once had the belief that through hard work and dedication one could obtain the American dream. They believed throughout the ages, that no one should be denied the opportunity to try. When a neighbor was in need, it didn’t take a law to provide them assistance, but the values from the community that would come forward to help them. We still see it today when there is a disaster that affects people. How many people come out to donate time, money, blood and other resources to help those in needs? It didn’t take a law demanding their help. They do it because each one believes in one another. How many people contribute to the local food banks, or to the school community to provide for children at the beginning of each school year or for gifts for Christmas? We do it naturally because we believe in it.
So in the charity so many are willing to give, unfortunately there are those who believe they not only have a right to this charity but they demand it. We owe it to them. We owe you nothing. We do it because we want to, not because we owe you.
Society today has become one of people believing we owe them. They no longer believe they have to work to obtain what they need to survive, but feel it is their right to have these things and more. Many make a career out of taking from the hardworking citizens.
My daughter is a high school teacher and, as she vents her frustrations to me on a weekly basis, I hear about the vast change in values of our youth. A number of students still work hard to earn their grades. But a good many of them feel they should be given a grade or pass the class because of their ultimate goals. They don’t want to put in the work to honesty earn these grade, but instead feel they are entitled to them. They are not willing to take responsibility for their own actions or lack of them. Parents and/or students complain because their son or daughter can’t participate in sports because a certain teacher “gave them a failing grade.” Did that son or daughter not earn that failing grade? Parents complain to the administration when their son or daughter can’t get in to a certain college because they did not receive grades allowing them entrance to that college. Instead of the student taking responsibility for their actions they blame the teacher and demand the grade be changed. Teachers who don’t respond to these threats by giving in are often criticized by the administration for not being responsive to their students and parents.
This only sets up the precedent for future actions of these youth. When they obtain a job they feel they are entitled to a paycheck and keep the job even though they show up for work late, call off often, and don’t do the job required of them. No one should criticize this behavior because we owe them.
The programs the government offers are there to help people in time of need. Many people make a career out of it. The larger the family, the more they get, so they continue having children even though they cannot afford to support those they already have. They take no responsibility. We owe them.
Now we are faced with 12 million illegals in this country, demanding services, because we owe them. The Mexican government is pushing for the US to pass amnesty for these illegals because we owe them. We owe them nothing! They not only demand free services but expect us to change to accommodate them. They expect us to learn their language, but do nothing to learn ours. We did not force you into this country, you came here illegally. So if you do not like what this country has to offer, then GO HOME! But don’t expect us to change to suit your needs. We do not owe you.
Health care reform demonstrates yet another entitlement program. Nowhere in the constitution does it say that one is entitled to health care. As responsible and compassionate citizens we feel no one should be denied medical care for life saving efforts. Programs today exist to allow you the opportunity to obtain that care. However, the abuse of these programs has lead to higher medical costs for everyone. So now when those who have been responsible, have obtained health care insurance and pay more than their share in taxes, are speaking out against a major reform that not only gives you more health care but takes away from ours, we are accused of being right-wing radicals and un-American. BUT WE OWE YOU NOTHING!
As I was talking to my daughter this past weekend about the bill, I pointed out some of the provisions to her. She kept saying “but they [government] can’t do that.” I kept repeating “it’s in the bill.” People in the past have had faith in our government to uphold our basic constitutional rights – even though we may and do disagree with many of their actions. As long as our basic rights remained there was always hope. The faith in our government is being crushed by the actions of our president and the people elected to represent us in Congress. Actions taken in the last few months question their commitment, not only to the citizens, but to the country.